How do you write a tragic backstory?
“I’m trying to write a backstory for my main character. She’s supposed to have this really tragic past that explains why she’s so closed off and distrustful, but every time I write it, it feels… fake? Like I’m just piling on sad things for no reason. How do I make it actually mean something without it coming across as trauma dumping or edgy for the sake of being edgy?”
Tragic backstories can create sympathy, explain motivation, and give characters depth, but there’s definitely a fine line between a backstory that readers will respond to and one that feels like a checklist of trauma dumping.
Ultimately, the key isn’t how much tragedy you include; it’s how that tragedy connects to who your character is now. A well-crafted backstory (especially a tragic one) isn’t about shock value. Instead, it should be about creating a basis for building on your character in the present.
Start with the present, not the past
Before you write a single tragic event into your character’s backstory, you need to understand who your character is now. What are their current fears? What kind of defence mechanisms do they have? Are there any contradictions in their personality?
Once you know who your character is, you can work backwards from there. If your character struggles to trust people, you can ask yourself what specific experience might have taught them that trust is dangerous. It doesn’t even have to be a series of events. It could be just one formative one.
Your character’s backstory should be the answer to questions raised by their behaviour in your plot, not a random collection of bad things you feel you need to include to justify it.
Make the tragedy specific
Vague trauma rarely lands with readers. But remember, specifics don’t necessarily equate to detail.
Someone having a vague “rough childhood” could mean anything. But saying that a character was abandoned by her mother at infancy and was raised by a neglectful father will have more impact. But knowing the details of that neglect also won’t add to a reader’s understanding unless plot relevant, so this is a great way to avoid trauma-dumping. You give enough details for the character’s current actions to have context, but not over share to the point of it becoming an act of voyeurism.
Once again, the rule of thumb is that if it’s plot relevant share it. If it isn’t, don’t.
Connect backstory to present behaviour
Every element of a tragic backstory should be directly relevant to your character’s current actions. If it doesn’t affect how they move through the story, then ask yourself whether it really needs to be included.
If we look at the character of Jay Gatsby from The Great Gatsby, his backstory feeds into every part of his character through the present actions of the novel. The fact that he was born into poverty and lost Daisy because he wasn’t wealthy enough directly shapes every aspect of his behaviour throughout the novel.
F. Scott Fitzgerald doesn’t dump Gatsby’s backstory on us in chapter one. He shares it in fragments as the story progresses to contextualise the behaviours we’ve already seen Jay Gatsby display. By the time we understand his backstory, we already understand him as a character, making his backstory feel earned rather than manufactured.
The danger of tragic backstories
A lot of writers will equate a tragic backstory with character depth. And nothing could be further from the truth.
A tragic backstory doesn’t automatically make a character interesting. What makes a character interesting is how well-rounded and realistic they feel as a person. Every part of their backstory, the good and the bad, needs to feel genuine to the person they are, which means that you, as the writer need to know the really well.
Another pitfall with tragic backstories is the dreaded info dump. It can be hard to share information naturally, peppered through the story, and I think we can all relate to the feeling of just wanting to get the context out of the way so you can continue with the story you want to tell now. But too many flashbacks or moments of backstory exposition can grind your plot momentum to a halt. You want readers to feel immersed and your revelations to feel organic.
Unless it’s a fundamental part of your plot, it’s also important to avoid your characters feeling like passive agents in their own story. Even if they’re active in the present, it can be easy to have backstory feel like a series of events that happened to them, rather than something they were present in. Even in backstory, your characters should be active participants, making choices even if they are limited or flawed.
The “so what” test
After you’ve come up with a character backstory, ask yourself: so what? This keeps you accountable to your plot, to make sure that what you’re writing is plot relevant, and not simply tragedy for the sake of tragedy. Things to keep in mind might be:
- Does this backstory element directly influence my character’s choices in the present story?
- If I remove this backstory element completely, does anything change?
- Does my reader need to know this, or just me?
Let’s look at The Lord of the Rings trilogy as an example. A big part of Aragorn’s backstory is that he is the heir of Isildur. He was raised in hiding among the elves, knowing that he carries the bloodline of a king who failed to destroy the Ring, ultimately spending decades as a wandering ranger rather than claiming his throne. So what?
Aragorn’s entire reluctance in the story to take the mantle of leader stems directly from Isildur’s failure. Without this backstory, Aragorn becomes a generic reluctant hero with no ties to the story world. Isildur’s failure is introduced to readers before it is directly story-relevant, but becomes meaningful when Aragorn’s family history is revealed, making it an essential element for readers to know.
Ultimately, a tragic backstory works best when readers can look at your character’s past and think, “Of course that’s why they are the way they are.” When writing any backstory, it should never be the focus. It always needs to complement and contextualise the character you are writing now.
